Drugs. Pornography. Either of these things can put you on the dark, dangerous path to addiction.
But there is one type of addiction that is much more subtle but equally dangerous. It can affect your brain just as drastically as drugs or pornography. And if you’re not careful, it could ruin your whole life.
Today I would like to address the very serious issue of TV show addictions.
Now, before I get started, let me just preface by saying that I don’t inherently hate television–not anymore, at least. Sure, when I got back from my church mission, there was a period of time when I would consistently refer to TV as “the devil box.”
But that’s not me anymore.
I am writing this post simply because I myself have suffered from the pains of TV show addictions.
You may scoff at the mere mention of a TV show addiction, but I urge you not to do so. Stella Dorby, president of national support group Television Addicts Anonymous (TAA), has this to say regarding frivolous attitudes toward TV show addictions:
“It’s no laughing matter. As a former TV show addict and the current president of TAA, it is my duty–no, my stewardship–to protect television addicts from those people who seek to mock and undermine the credibility of such addictions.”
As a struggling TV addict myself, I urge all of you to please heed the words of Stella Dorby. One look at her will assure you that she is an upstanding citizen of these the United States, a woman whose opinion should be taken seriously.
If you don’t believe Stella Dorby (and I can’t understand why this would possibly be the case), believe me. I speak from personal experience: TV is a very real, very hazardous addiction.
Let me share what I have noticed to be the seven stages of developing a TV show addiction. If you recognize that you or somebody you know is going through these stages, I urge you to seek help before it’s too late.
Stage 1: Hearing about the show
Someone, somewhere, mentions that a show is good. You listen, but you are skeptical.
As far as you’re concerned at this point, there’s no way a show can be as good as people make it out to be.
Stage 2: Watching the show for the first time
Despite your doubts, you decide to give the show a whirl. You watch an episode or two, and you think to myself, This isn’t bad. You might even think it’s a downright decent show.
And you inwardly applaud the fact that the show isn’t horrible after all. Yay for life.
Stage 3: The show gets good
Either you get into the groove of the show, or the show finally gets into gear with its own groove. Before you know it, the show has become the best part of your life… which might not be saying much, but still.
There is usually some point of the show where everything just clicks, and at this point, there’s no turning back. You may not be aware of an addiction at this point, but the seeds of addiction have definitely sprouted.
Stage 4: Binge watching
Hanging out with friends? Exercise? Meeting new people? No thanks. Just give me my stories.
And thus the binge watching begins.
Stage 5: The secret addiction is no longer secret
Your show is definitely your top priority at this point. You spend hours isolated in your room, watching just one more episode… then another one… then another one.
People start to notice that you’re spending a significant amount of time watching a TV show. Suspicion and mockery ensue.
Stage 6: You become too emotionally invested in the show
This particular stage calls for more examples from my personal experience with television addiction.
You have to know that, outside of the television world, I am quite the even-tempered individual. Tell me just about anything and I will almost always have the same reaction.
My reaction to a friend or family member telling me that they’re going to come visit:
My reaction to finding out that somebody just died:
My reaction to finding out my best friend is engaged:
And finally, my reaction to a joke, even if I think it’s funny:
Yes, you can say I’m a man of few emotions. Some might call me stoic, maybe even heartless.
Therefore, I can’t help but worry when TV causes me to have some irrationally extreme emotional reactions.
Like my reaction when somebody tries to talk to me while I’m watching my TV addiction:
Or when I don’t agree with the direction the show takes:
Some shows even make me… what’s the word? Laugh?
And the worst reaction comes when I reach the end of a good show’s run:
Stage 7: The most disturbing stage of all
When you have an actual dream about a TV show, you know your addiction is out of control. You might even dream about full episodes of your favorite TV shows. When you wake up and realize these dreams were not actual canonical episodes, you feel complete and utter disappointment.
And such is the life of a television addict.
So yes, TV show addictions are real, and yes, such addictions are serious. TV is a means by which to waste away your own life in the process of becoming too invested in the lives of fictional characters.
To avoid developing a TV show addiction, please steer clear of the following shows:
Parks and Recreation
Buffy the Vampire Slayer
On the other hand… more often than not, TV is a good alternative to life. Your favorite TV characters are probably more reliable than the actual people in your life. Also, when something bad happens in a TV show, you can just tell yourself it’s not real–which isn’t really the case in real life. So when I say to steer clear of the above shows, I actually mean that you should watch all of them immediately.
And to answer your question, yes, this article is a complete joke–probably in more ways than one.